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Relationship Advice...Alters In Love With Others? : Dissociative ...

My SO and I are currently in a bit of a spot. He has quite a large system (several hundred) and we've recently run into an issue with a few of his alters. We have discovered that some of them are still in love with his exes and want to try to get back together with them.

A majority of his system is in love with me (and I them) so we aren't quite sure what to think of this new development. Everyone except for these few agree that it's a bad idea to even attempt it not only because of how the relationships ended but also because they want to be with me.

These few have started causing problems by trying to take over the system. We're not really sure how to handle this matter as they refuse to give us a chance and want to give their exes (each one wants a different one) a second chance for whatever reason. Also, the relationships ended badly and were under 4 months long as his exes either didn't like his alters, constantly fought with him, tried to use him, etc so we all have trouble understanding why they would want to go back to that. (For those wondering, I've been friends with my SO for several years and been dating for nearly a year).

Any advice/thoughts/experiences/etc would be wonderful to see/hear.

Source: http://www.psychforums.com/dissociative-identity/topic98966.html

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